How it starts

I found this in my gmail archives the other day...I found it really funny, because, well...it was just about saving money....

and...the control we had over the timing...yeah, not so much : )

1:48 PM me: mary anne from whfc just sent me an email

if we get paper work post marked by tomorrow it saves us $400 over the course of the adoption. I am willing to work on it today

do you think it's worth it?

1:49 PM Dan: is there money involved in doing that?

1:50 PM me: $1600

Dan: whoa!

me: or $1750 after tomorrow

Dan: good to save money

me: then the next fee goes up a couple hundred too

1:51 PM Dan: originally, i thought it couldn't hurt to update the home study while audrey would be there because that would save money and would still give us the option to move forward

this will be a commitment that we're definitely in

not saying no...just now it's for real

1:52 PM me: ummmm

yeah

it's been real for me though

are you not there?

Dan: i was definitely getting there, but up until now, it seemed like i didn't need to "be there"

all the way

1:53 PM i want to do it

me: we still have control over the timing

we don't have to submit paperwork until we are ready

meaning home study

and CIS

1:54 PM Dan: do we need to send the $1600 in tomorrow?

me: ye[

yep

Dan: can we post date the check :)

is this thing on?

1:55 PM i just flew in from vegas and boy are my arms tired

try the veal?

me: what is happening?

was that your way of saying that was a joke?

Dan: i put a :) after the post date comment

1:56 PM me: uh huh but then you did a stand up routine

1:57 PM Dan: because you didn't respond and then i said "is this thing on"...you know, like a comedian that doesn't get a laugh

:)

me: you didn't even give me a minute to respond

Dan: how much work do you need to do on the paperwork?

is it an application?

me: okay anyway sounds like waiting is what you want to do

yes

Dan: not necessarily

1:58 PM $1600 was just a little shock and like i said made it a firm commitment vs. let's keep going with little investment

1:59 PM can you get what you need done by tomorrow?

would i need to sign anything before work so it gets postmarked tomorrow?

2:02 PM me: i will have to print it

i haven't looked at it yet

10 minutes

2:13 PM me: you are cute

its mostly just signing your life away